New Drama

I have discovered the reason why couples fall apart...it's not that things get old...it's that the day to day issue deteriorate your love...all the things that are said and done over time really takes it's toll on love...it eats away at it like a flesh eating parasite until there is just no feelings left...i don't know who this is harder for the person getting eaten or the person that stands by and watches...and the other person always wants to fix things when it's too late...should i feel bad about not really putting in the effort??? even though i was the one making the effort for many years before his sudden "turning over a new leaf"...CONFUSED and DAZED